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A man of bad character punishes his own soul.
You will never find happiness until you clean the garden of your heart from the poisonous plants of envy, hatred, spite, and resentment.
Narrated An-Nu'man bin Bashir:
I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying,
...Beware! There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good (reformed) the whole body becomes good but if it gets spoilt the whole body gets spoilt and that is the heart.
[Sahih al-Bukhari 52]
those who purify their souls will certainly have everlasting happiness. and those who corrupt their souls will certainly be deprived (of happiness). (Quran 91 : 9 - 10)
...there is no change in the words of Allah...
[Quran 10 : 64]
Ziyad bin `Ilaqah narrated from his uncle, that he said:
“[The Prophet (ﷺ)] used to say: ‘O Allah, I seek refuge in You from evil character, evil actions, and evil desires (Allāhumma innī a`ūdhu bika min munkarātil-akhlāqi wal-a`māli wal-ahwā’).’”
[Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3591]
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Earn Jannah By Avoid Quarrel.
Agar kabhi kisi se aap ki ladai ka moqe ajaye to aap iska behtareen istamal karen.
Yaad rakhen ye ladai ka moqa Allah ke khareeb aur jannat mein Allah muqam hasil karne ka ek behtareen moqa (opportunity) hai, isko aap mat gawayen.
For example,
Agar kabhi aap ki kisi se ladai hogayee aur aap sirf Allah ki raza keliye sabar karliye to aap in shaa Allah jannat ke haqdar bangaye.
Aur agar aap ne apne nafs ke liye badla le liye to aap allah ke khareeb aur allah ki raza aur jannat mein alaa muqam hasil karne ka behtareen moqa gawan liya.
Narrated AbuUmamah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for a man who avoids quarrelling even if he were in the right, a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids lying even if he were joking, and a house in the upper part of Paradise for a man who made his character good.
[Sunan Abi Dawud 4800]
If you have a choice between revenge and forgiveness, choose forgiveness. The reward that follows forgiveness cannot be replaced by a thousand revenge. This is a profitable deal; we will not let it go. Indeed, we hope for a very high reward in the Hereafter for this lofty action.
The Quran says,
"Those will be rewarded with the highest place [in Paradise] because of their patience.." (Quran-25:75)
What a beautiful religion we have, I'm lucky for being a Muslim. Alhamdulillah. We do not treat our enemies, like the way they treat us. We are people of Islam. We treat them well and sacrificing our emotions.
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Don't care about people.
Allah ke khatir, Allah ki raza keliye, dushman
se ladai ke waqt, khamosh rehjana
bahut behtar hai, magar
jo log ye samajte hain ke agar main dushman se muqabila na karon to log mere bare mein kya sochenge aur kya kahenge? Un keliye ye hadith hai.
'Abdul-Wahhab bin Al-Ward narrated from a man among the inhabitants of Al-Madinah who said:
"Mu'awiyah wrote a letter to 'Aishah, that: 'Write a letter to advise me , and do not overburden me.'" He said: "So 'Aishah [may Allah be pleased with her]wrote to Mu'awiyah: 'Peace be upon you. As for what follows: Indeed I heard the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) saying: Whoever seeks Allah's pleasure by the people's wrath, Allah will suffice him from the people. And who ever seeks the people's pleasure by Allah's wrath, Allah will entrust him to the people. And Peace be upon you.'"
[Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2414]
Mind it, my silence is not my weakness; it’s the strength of my Iman and patience.
Quran says:
...Believers love God more than anything...
[Quran 2 : 165]
Some people are loser in the eye of this worldly people. But they are the real winner in the eye of Allah SWT.
If all the people are pleased with you but Allah is not, what have you gained?
If Allah is pleased with you and all the people are not, what have you lost?.
When you have Allah, you have everything.
It is worth it to lose everything for Allah rather than losing Allah for something.
And there is the type of man who gives his life to earn the pleasure of Allah: And Allah is full of kindness to (His) devotees. (Qur’an 2 : 207)
When a person doesn’t have strong faith in Allah, he’ll prefer the admiration of his own or people over the pleasure of Allah.
Narrated AbuUmamah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: If anyone loves for Allah's sake, hates for Allah's sake, gives for Allah's sake and withholds for Allah's sake, he will have perfect faith.
[Sunan Abi Dawud 4681]
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