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A man of bad character punishes his own soul.
You will never find happiness until you clean the garden of your heart from the poisonous plants of envy, hatred, spite, and resentment.
Narrated An-Nu'man bin Bashir:
I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying,
...Beware! There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good (reformed) the whole body becomes good but if it gets spoilt the whole body gets spoilt and that is the heart.
[Sahih al-Bukhari 52]
those who purify their souls will certainly have everlasting happiness. and those who corrupt their souls will certainly be deprived (of happiness). (Quran 91 : 9 - 10)
...there is no change in the words of Allah...
[Quran 10 : 64]
Ziyad bin `Ilaqah narrated from his uncle, that he said:
“[The Prophet (ﷺ)] used to say: ‘O Allah, I seek refuge in You from evil character, evil actions, and evil desires (Allāhumma innī a`ūdhu bika min munkarātil-akhlāqi wal-a`māli wal-ahwā’).’”
[Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3591]
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Revenge is permissible, but patience is better than revenge.
The recompense for an evil is an evil like thereof, but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allâh... (Quan 42 : 40)
And if you punish (your enemy, O you believers in the Oneness of Allâh), then punish them with the like of that with which you were afflicted. But if you endure patiently, verily, it is better for As-Sâbirun (the patient) (Quran 16 : 126)
"Those will be rewarded with the highest place [in Paradise] because of their patience..." (Quran-25:75)
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It is not lawful for a Muslim to avoid speaking with his brother beyond three days.
Anas bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Do not harbour grudge against one another, nor jealousy, nor enmity; and do not show your backs to one another; and become as fellow brothers and slaves of Allah. It is not lawful for a Muslim to avoid speaking with his brother beyond three days."
[Al- Bukhari and Muslim].
[Riyad as-Salihin 1567]
Abu Ayyub Al-Ansari (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "It is not lawful for a Muslim to desert (stop talking to) his brother beyond three nights, the one turning one way and the other turning to the other way when they meet, the better of the two is one who is the first to greet the other."
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
[Riyad as-Salihin 1592]
Agar aap ka dushman aap se moo pherle magar phir bhi aap sirf aur sirf Allah ke khatir usse aap hi pehle baat karo, iske bawajood agar wo aap se moo pherle, to yaad rakho ye kaam aap ne sirf aur sirf allah ke khatir ki hai. Aur iski wajah se agar tumhare izzat logon ke samne chali jaye to bhi koi baat nahi.
Because, some people are loser in the eye of this worldly people. But they are the real winner in the eye of Allah SWT.
Allah ko harne ke baad koi jeet jeet nahi. Allah ko jeet ne baad koi har har nahi.
When a person doesn’t have strong faith in Allah, he’ll prefer the pleasure of his own over the pleasure of Allah.
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "It is not lawful for a Muslim to forsake his (Muslim) brother beyond three days; and whosoever does so for more than three days, and then dies, will certainly enter the Hell."
[Abu Dawud].
[Riyad as-Salihin 1595]
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "The gates of Jannah are opened on Mondays and Thursdays, and then every slave (of Allah) is granted forgiveness if he does not associate anything with Allah in worship. But the person in whose heart there is rancour against his (Muslim) brother, they will not be pardoned and with regard to them it will be said twice: 'Hold both of them until they are reconciled with each other."'
[Muslim].
[Riyad as-Salihin 1568]
'Abdullah bin Mas'ud narrated that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:
"Shall I not inform you of whom the Fire is unlawful and he is unlawful for the Fire? Every person who is near (to people), amicable, and easy (to deal with).'"
[Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2488]
Haritha b. Wahb reported that he heard Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) as saying:
May I not inform you about the inmates of Paradise? They said: Do this, of course. Thereupon Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: Every humble person who is considered to be humble if he were to adjure In the name of Allah, He would fulfil it. He then said: May I not inform you about the denizens of Hell-Fire? They said: Yes. And he said: Every haughty, fat and proud (person).
[Sahih Muslim 2853a]
The arrogant will enter the fire, and the humble will enter paradise.
O Allah, please remove all enmity from my heart and make me a patient and humble person. Ameen
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Love one another for the sake of Allah
Agar aap ki kisi se dushmani hai to isko ek sunehri moqa samajkar Allah keliye us'se islaha karlo, ye aap ko jannat jane ka behtareen zariya banjayega. In shaa Allah.
Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
Verily. Allah would say on the Day of Resurrection: Where are those who have mutual love for My Glory's sake? Today I shall shelter them in My shadow when there is no other shadow but the shadow of Mine.
[Sahih Muslim 2566]
Mu'adh (bin Jabal) (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah, the Exalted, has said: 'For those who love one another for the sake of My Glory, there will be seats of light (on the Day of Resurrection), and they will be envied by the Prophets and martyrs".
[At- Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan Sahih].
[ Riyad as-Salihin 381]
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