Hurting the feelings of others.   



You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.


Insult

O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name [i.e., mention] of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers. (Quran 49 : 11)


Big benefit to the victim of insult.

Don’t feel sad when someone is insulting you. Insulting means actually transferring your good deeds to the one you HATE.


O oppressor listen carefully don't happy after hurting innocent people, remember a day (Qiyamah) is near for me and you.


Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever has oppressed another person concerning his reputation or anything else, he should beg him to forgive him before the Day of Resurrection when there will be no money (to compensate for wrong deeds), but if he has good deeds, those good deeds will be taken from him according to his oppression which he has done, and if he has no good deeds, the sins of the oppressed person will be loaded on him." [Sahih al-Bukhari 2449]


Don't waste time on revenge. The people who hurt you will eventually face their own crime.







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